An interesting viewpoint which I agree with.
This post is part two of a series, which begins here: Preventing Our Children From Developing Demons (And Healing Our Own), in which I look at the ideas outlined in the book, Healing Developmental Trauma by Laurence Helller, PhD and Aline LaPierre, PsyD.
The writers outline Five Core Needs that babies are born with and biologically are built to have satisfied. From these we develop Five Capabilities Essential to Wellbeing or we develop combinations of one or more of the Five Survival Styles with their associated Five Core Difficulties. From these I have extrapolated Five Key Tasks of Parenting, which we can use, as best we can, to ensure our children develop according to their biological expectations or which we can use to identify ways that we can help our children, after things haven’t gone according to the biological plan.
For the record, I am far from being the perfect…
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